We want to hear that our partner loves us but it’s just not happening. Well maybe they’re speaking a different love language. Gary Chapmans book “The 5 Love Languages” helps us understand the disconnect that sometimes occurs in a relationship and how we can build resilience into it.
Forgiveness has many meanings to people, it’s one of the easiest things to say we’ll do but in reality sometimes forgiveness is one of the hardest things we can do.
I’d like to talk a little about what forgiveness is and is not so that it might give someone some relief especially after an affair/betrayal.
In an article, Steven Stosny Ph.D. lists 25 things men do that can promote fear (anxiety) in their female partner and 25 things women do that can promote shame in their men. Continue reading
If there’s one question I get asked a lot outside the counselling rooms, it’s something along the lines of “when should you go to relationship counselling ?”. The short answer is whenever you feel it’s necessary. The long answer, well like I said it’s long, so I’ll try to shorten it.
By: Nina Matthews – CC BY 2.0
A great example of how guys think…. enjoy :)
