Simply put, subjective reality is the meaning we assign the experience(s) we have. To put it another way, have you ever had the experience where two (or more) people hear or see the same thing but yet walk away with a different perspective or account of what happened ? I’m guessing yes. Andrew IggledenAndrew is
We want to hear that our partner loves us but it’s just not happening. Well maybe they’re speaking a different love language. Gary Chapmans book “The 5 Love Languages” helps us understand the disconnect that sometimes occurs in a relationship and how we can build resilience into it. Andrew IggledenAndrew is a Couples Coach in
Forgiveness has many meanings to people, it’s one of the easiest things to say we’ll do but in reality sometimes forgiveness is one of the hardest things we can do. I’d like to talk a little about what forgiveness is and is not so that it might give someone some relief especially after an affair/betrayal.
If there’s one question I get asked a lot outside the counselling rooms, it’s something along the lines of “when should you go to relationship counselling ?”. The short answer is whenever you feel it’s necessary. The long answer, well like I said it’s long, so I’ll try to shorten it. Andrew IggledenAndrew is
John Gottman (author of 7 Principles of making a marriage work) describes masters of relationships as kind, generous, affectionate, sense of humour, having perspective, considerate of their partners feelings, communicating and repair those times they hurt their partners. Andrew IggledenAndrew is a Couples Coach in his private practice, Kardinya Counselling located in Werribee & Point
